To make her cum quick

Its been a long way out in that relationship of yours, but you've not succeeded in giving your guy that pride filled pleasure of cumming, while he's in the thick of it. When a lady attains orgasm during sex, the pleasure is the guy's. It gives him the pride of been the man, he'll be filled with the feeling that he's really got it done this time. But how can he get it done? It doesn't matter if he stays on all day, It doesn't matter if he crushes your ember with impacts propelled by the hardest pain killers and viagra. It all depends on the lady to play her own part. Orgasm is not easy feat to achieve, according to sexperts, its only 30 percent of women that can orgasm from stimulation-free intercourse. So achieving orgasm is only possible with the input or contribution of both psychological and physical effort of the female. The psychological mind frame or position of the lady is a huge playing factor, the two salient questions are; how do you feel about this particular moment, has it been a moment you've been longing or anticipating? Another question is; how do u feel about sex, is it just to satisfy your man or you are ready to partake in the pleasure sharing? anticipation is a huge contributor in the quest to achieving the big G, yes! Anticipation it is. When you fail to plan, you plan to fail. While you are at it, create that serene environment in your mind frame, create scenarios, paint psychological pictures. watch.........yes, watch pornography while he is still absent and a bit of stimulation (but don't hit the climax) is a very good idea while you wait for that moment. Some ladies have had bad sex all their lives that they don't know what it means to have that maximum, that "star seeing" feeling during intercourse. All they do is lay there, like "is he done yet" and it doesn't matter if you are there or not. Believe it or not, sex is selfish, I said this because, it involves two individuals with separate brains and mind sets. A guy would pop and grind for his own pleasure, and your own part determines if you are pleasured too. So when a female takes charge (sit on you) its not odd or away from norm. Its got to show that, she knows what she wants, and the means to achieving it. By this, I mean she want to be in control of the pace in movement, the angling in the direction, in search of what really works. She don't know how far the guy can last, so swinging it toward her favour, in order not to feel cheated when he cums is not wrong.